lesbian, but Любовь my boyfriend... wth is wrong with me?

Ok, sweetie, listen up- first of all, THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU. OK? Nothing.

My friend has went through the exact same thing, now he's out and he couldn't be happier- literally.

From the sounds of it, Ты are a lesbian. If Ты don't find men at all attractive but Ты find women are, then like I said, Ты probably are a lesbian.

I think that it's time Ты stopped pretending.

I know Ты Любовь your boyfriend, but Ты can't be with him if you're a lesbian (well Ты could but Ты know what I mean), if Ты want to be with a girl, then be with a girl.

I KNOW Ты don't want to hurt him but the problem, sweetie, is that sometimes, Ты have to hurt people to do what's right for you- it's the way things are. Ты can hate it, Ты can throw things against the Стена but Ты can't keep pretending. Ты have to do what's right for you.

I think Ты may have to break up with him.

And if Ты think about it, it would be right for him to, the longer Ты wait the harder it is going to get on both of you. It's best if Ты both just get it over with.

Does that sound mean? It does. I just don't think it's right if people string others along because they're afraid they'll be hurt.

Ты сказал(-а) he knew of your situation, so, tell him. I KNOW it will be scary for you, and for him, but he has to know the truth.
He'll be hurt, he may not understand или like it but if he's the man Ты thought he was, he'll be OK with Ты later and support Ты once he's gotten over the shock.

There was something else I was going to say but I can't remember- it's also hard to write down. But this is just what I think.

Good luck, I hope it all goes OK for you.

Just remember to be honest to yourself and him.

Well, the way I see it there are three basic kinds of love: romantic, emotional, and sexual love. If Ты aren't feeling sexually in Любовь with your boyfriend, perhaps it is emotional или even romantic.

But Ты have to ask yourself: Do Ты imagine yourself spending the rest of your life with him? Would Ты feel an emptiness inside Ты if Ты spent the rest of your life with a male?

If not, maybe Ты could remain Друзья или even take a break for a while. If he cares about you, he'll understand. или if Ты want to say with him, make sure he knows that a sexual relationship with him is not your вверх priority.

firstly there is nothing wrong with the way that you're feeling, i think that everyone at some point goes through mixed emotions about their sexual orientation, before choosing a sexuality Ты should really think about what it is that appeals to Ты about women, there is a big different between lust and love, Ты sound like Ты Любовь the guy but don't have any sexual feelings towards him, i think Ты should sit down and discuss the way Ты are feeling with him, maybe Ты could take a break and explore how it is that Ты really feel

my Совет though would be to not be so quick as to try and label yourself as one thing или another.

Honey, Ты seem to want to stick to lesbian, and thats OK, and I'm sorry to say I think Ты must be leaning a little bit bi >.<