If I had a quarter for each time someone on this club сказал(-а) that line... “No one likes me.”, “I’m ignored.”, “I don’t fit in.”. No that really isn’t the case.

I’ve gone to the club activity of about five of the people who have сказал(-а) this, and looked for times where they had been treated unfairly, или been ignored, and usually that’s not the case. I’ve also noticed that most of the time the people who have сказал(-а) these things are new, and/or don’t do stuff on the club often in the first place.

It takes time to find out if Ты want to be in a group или not. And just because Ты aren’t instantly popular, it doesn’t mean people dislike you. And while I have seen quite a few of these people say this who have had run-ins with Mephilesthedark, Mephiles is not everyone. Just because one person snapped at you, it doesn’t mean the whole club is against you; it doesn’t even mean that one person is against you. I argue with people I’m Друзья with all the time, and they argue with each other, but that alone doesn’t, или shouldn’t, make someone want to leave so quickly.

And if people ARE hating on Ты at first, are Ты really just going to roll over and give up? Apparently yes because I keep seeing all these spam Комментарии about it so often it hurts. When I started out on this club, people HATED me, and I was told many times to just stop and leave the club, but I didn’t and now I can honestly say I’m pretty successful in this club.

Think of it like you’re running for President. Just because it gets hard, all the support, and money used to help get Ты started is for naught if Ты aren’t willing to stick to it.

And then there’s the people that go “I’m leaving again,” “I’m back”, “I’m leaving.” HOW ABOUT Ты JUST DON’T SAY ANYTHING? No one is going to freak out over Ты being gone three days, coming back for three days, leaving again for three days, then coming back AGAIN, for three days. When you’re here, they’re happy, when you’re gone, they’ll wonder probably, but if you’re back in a week’s time it’s not a big deal. If Ты say “Sorry I can’t be on for a bit because *insert reason here*. I might be back in *insert amount here* days.” that’s completely fine, as long as Ты don’t overdo it.

Stick around if Ты want to stick around. Leave if Ты want to leave. But don’t post a Комментарий every time Ты say so. And BEFORE Ты decide to, take at least a full день after wanting to leave each time Ты want to, to think up and go over if Ты actually want to go. And if Ты do leave, don’t Удалить anything. No matter how much Ты might want to, или how much Ты think it doesn’t matter, I can almost guarantee that Ты will regret it later. And other people who like what you’ve Опубликовано might not want the stuff to disappear either. And above all, do NOT Удалить your account, that is unless Ты want to re-fan ALL the clubs, and add EVERY SINGLE THING YOU’VE MADE BACK onto your notifications.


On a similar topic, I address those who vanish out of thin air, then don’t come back for quite a while. Now obviously I stand by that making a habit of notifying people if you’re going to be gone gets really annoying when Ты do it so often, but when Ты just go nowhere people get worried, или they get annoyed.

Now before someone gets upset, this has nothing to do with situations where Ты can’t get onto a computer, или the site, или any other immediate reason that would keep Ты away, and it doesn’t have to do with it being instantaneous and Ты not knowing when it would happen. This is about the situations where when we find out what Ты were doing, it turns out these people were just chilling.

~Watching youtube
~got bored
~and of course MINECRAFT

I’ll admit that Ты don’t have to tell anyone what you’re doing, it’s your life, but it’s also common courtesy. When I find out that a person I was waiting to talk to about something, или roleplay with, или Форум with, was gone just because they were having so much fun with Team Fortress 2, all I can think is “Well thanks for wasting my time!”

For me, I have my fun when I see that the club is slowed down, and little или nothing is going on. I’ll spend about a half-hour или so doing whatever, then come back to check up. If there’s still nothing happening, I’ll go back to what I was doing.

And if you’re going to be doing whatever for a long period of time, all Ты need to do so people don’t get upset after waiting for so long, is make a Комментарий или Статья ONCE, listing the things you’re going to be doing, when Ты plan to do them, what times they usually happen, and how much time they might take up. And if Ты want to make sure no one’s left out, send it to a friend’s wall.

Again, Ты don’t have to do this, and these are all just suggestions; I hope everyone understands that if someone wants to just stop out of nowhere, disappear into Minecraft (Майнкрафт) for a месяц (has happened), then come back like nothing’s happened, they can do it at their leisure, but to those people, it in no way makes Ты any less inconsiderate.


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