Эй,
guys SE Фан here, I’ve been lurking this spot for a while and I decided to Присоединиться to share some opinions (some might be unpopular) But here it goes :). Honestly I get that as SE Фаны we all would never want Elena to Kiss Damon, and I don’t blame Ты but I think people are taking it to extremes when they start saying that Elena doesn’t deserve Stefan. I was under the impression that when Ты Любовь a pairing, you’re supposed to Любовь and support/appreciate both parts of that pairing, even when they do things we don’t approve of. IMO saying Elena doesn’t deserve Stefan is ridiculous after everything she’s sacrificed for him and everything she’s put up with to be with him from the beginning even when he felt he didn’t deserve her. Stefan is no saint, he’s done plenty wrong to Elena as well and I don’t recall ever seeing any hate for Stefan или anyone claiming that he doesn’t deserve her. Why is there a difference for Elena? Oh how easily we forget, how many times has Elena put herself in danger and risked her life for Stefan’s sake. In season one, who was there for him after his blood addiction crisis? Oh that’s right Elena! She put herself in harm’s way just by being in the same room as him. She fought for him when he didn’t have any fight left and encouraged him to continue to live. Who risked her family and Друзья when Katherine threatened her to be with Stefan? Oh right that’s Elena again! And she almost Остаться в живых her aunt for it too. I’m an SE Фан but I’m an Elena Фан too, and even if I may not like that she kissed Damon, she’s human, it’s a triangle, and I expected it to happen and IMO this is the best way it could have happened without cheapening her character and making her look bad.
I really can’t get with all the Elena hate; it hurts me to see people not respecting her character when we all ship her with Stefan. It’s like people expect her to be this girl that just caters to Stefan, and never makes a mistakes. The standard some of Ты all set for her is ridiculous and unreal at times, and Ты all never hold Stefan up to those kinds of standards. Stefan is allowed to make mistakes (i.e withholding information from her and never telling her the whole truth, etc.) and when it blows up in his face, all I never see people coming down hard on Stefan. All I read is “Elena better forgive him etc.” There’s never anyone claiming that Stefan doesn’t deserve her. What makes Stefan еще deserving than Elena? What has he done to deserve the unconditional Любовь that she gives him? I’ve read Комментарии saying “Elena should suffer, before she can be deserving of Stefan’s Любовь again”. This is the most ludicrous thing I’ve ever read. If Ты Любовь a character (as I like to believe we all Любовь Elena, since we’re shipping her with Stefan) than Ты don’t wish for them to suffer. Hasn’t she suffered enough? The girl has Остаться в живых almost all of her family; the only person she has left is Jeremy. What еще suffering does she need to endure? People who are wishing еще suffering on Elena are not Elena Фаны and have no business shipping her with ANYONE. She’s not some trophy that Stefan gets for being a good guy. She’s a person with her own feelings and emotions and I think people often don’t take that into consideration. We’re first in line to justify или understand every misdeed of Stefan’s and when Elena does something I see way too many people getting in line to crucify her. I don’t understand it. It breaks my сердце to see her being treated this way and not getting any understanding from the very people who are supposed to Любовь her.
And the other thing that gets to me is people saying that she’s worse than Katherine или she’s Katherine 2.0 and other such nonsense. This is also ridiculous, just because she gave a dying man a kiss, this automatically makes her Katherine или worse? The people who are making such ridiculous claims have obviously not been paying attention to this Показать at all. Katherine was and still is selfish and uncaring and always puts herself first no matter what. She intentionally pits the brothers against each other, for her own amusement and selfish reasons, which resulted in their strained relationship. Elena is the polar opposite of Katherine and even if does fall in Любовь with both brothers; she never had ill intentions and motivations. She’s done everything in her power to try to prevent this from happening. Even when Damon made advances at her, she repeatedly told him that it’s Stefan she loves and it’s always gonna be him. She never led him on, или toyed with him like Katherine did. The most she offered Damon in these past two seasons is friendship and nothing more. In the last episode she may have let her guard down and kissed him, but they were sure he would die. Elena being the compassionate and caring individual that she is wanted to provide him with some comfort and Любовь before he passed on, she never imagined that they’d have to deal with the consequences of it. Her сердце was in the right place and even though I don’t ship DE I can’t fault her for having a big сердце and wanting to put someone at ease and peace in their time of suffering. It doesn’t make what she did right, but it doesn’t warrant any hate или bashing. And honestly if we some of Ты feel this way about her, I really don't get the point of even continuing to ship SE at all.
в общем и целом, общая I really don’t have much of a problem with the треугольник and it’s obvious that the writers will be exploring the DE relationship some еще in the coming season; we knew this день would come and I am not really bothered by it. I came into this Показать knowing that it was going to be about a Любовь треугольник and just because I took a liking to SE doesn’t mean I’m going to hate Elena for having feelings for Damon. She’s human, she’s 17, and she’s had to deal with a lot of crap in the past two seasons, so naturally she’s going to be conflicted. I will always support Elena regardless of who she loves, because I know the kind of person she is and I would hope that some of Ты can see what a great character she is and not bash her for every little thing she does that we may not agree with. Obviously not all of us SE Фаны feel this way toward Elena and some have really understood her, but I couldn’t help but notice how many people didn’t and expressed such dislike and disdain for her when she really doesn’t deserve it.
Anyways these are just my thoughts and opinions, and I hope we can Показать Elena the same love, support and understanding that we constantly Показать Stefan.
Have a great день :)
I really can’t get with all the Elena hate; it hurts me to see people not respecting her character when we all ship her with Stefan. It’s like people expect her to be this girl that just caters to Stefan, and never makes a mistakes. The standard some of Ты all set for her is ridiculous and unreal at times, and Ты all never hold Stefan up to those kinds of standards. Stefan is allowed to make mistakes (i.e withholding information from her and never telling her the whole truth, etc.) and when it blows up in his face, all I never see people coming down hard on Stefan. All I read is “Elena better forgive him etc.” There’s never anyone claiming that Stefan doesn’t deserve her. What makes Stefan еще deserving than Elena? What has he done to deserve the unconditional Любовь that she gives him? I’ve read Комментарии saying “Elena should suffer, before she can be deserving of Stefan’s Любовь again”. This is the most ludicrous thing I’ve ever read. If Ты Любовь a character (as I like to believe we all Любовь Elena, since we’re shipping her with Stefan) than Ты don’t wish for them to suffer. Hasn’t she suffered enough? The girl has Остаться в живых almost all of her family; the only person she has left is Jeremy. What еще suffering does she need to endure? People who are wishing еще suffering on Elena are not Elena Фаны and have no business shipping her with ANYONE. She’s not some trophy that Stefan gets for being a good guy. She’s a person with her own feelings and emotions and I think people often don’t take that into consideration. We’re first in line to justify или understand every misdeed of Stefan’s and when Elena does something I see way too many people getting in line to crucify her. I don’t understand it. It breaks my сердце to see her being treated this way and not getting any understanding from the very people who are supposed to Любовь her.
And the other thing that gets to me is people saying that she’s worse than Katherine или she’s Katherine 2.0 and other such nonsense. This is also ridiculous, just because she gave a dying man a kiss, this automatically makes her Katherine или worse? The people who are making such ridiculous claims have obviously not been paying attention to this Показать at all. Katherine was and still is selfish and uncaring and always puts herself first no matter what. She intentionally pits the brothers against each other, for her own amusement and selfish reasons, which resulted in their strained relationship. Elena is the polar opposite of Katherine and even if does fall in Любовь with both brothers; she never had ill intentions and motivations. She’s done everything in her power to try to prevent this from happening. Even when Damon made advances at her, she repeatedly told him that it’s Stefan she loves and it’s always gonna be him. She never led him on, или toyed with him like Katherine did. The most she offered Damon in these past two seasons is friendship and nothing more. In the last episode she may have let her guard down and kissed him, but they were sure he would die. Elena being the compassionate and caring individual that she is wanted to provide him with some comfort and Любовь before he passed on, she never imagined that they’d have to deal with the consequences of it. Her сердце was in the right place and even though I don’t ship DE I can’t fault her for having a big сердце and wanting to put someone at ease and peace in their time of suffering. It doesn’t make what she did right, but it doesn’t warrant any hate или bashing. And honestly if we some of Ты feel this way about her, I really don't get the point of even continuing to ship SE at all.
в общем и целом, общая I really don’t have much of a problem with the треугольник and it’s obvious that the writers will be exploring the DE relationship some еще in the coming season; we knew this день would come and I am not really bothered by it. I came into this Показать knowing that it was going to be about a Любовь треугольник and just because I took a liking to SE doesn’t mean I’m going to hate Elena for having feelings for Damon. She’s human, she’s 17, and she’s had to deal with a lot of crap in the past two seasons, so naturally she’s going to be conflicted. I will always support Elena regardless of who she loves, because I know the kind of person she is and I would hope that some of Ты can see what a great character she is and not bash her for every little thing she does that we may not agree with. Obviously not all of us SE Фаны feel this way toward Elena and some have really understood her, but I couldn’t help but notice how many people didn’t and expressed such dislike and disdain for her when she really doesn’t deserve it.
Anyways these are just my thoughts and opinions, and I hope we can Показать Elena the same love, support and understanding that we constantly Показать Stefan.
Have a great день :)
