So where exactly are Ты supposed to meet these great new pals? Sitting in your room isn't going to make it happen! Start by getting involved in the activities and interest Ты already Любовь whether it's an online Winx Фан club или a local волейбол league. Being the new kid in the group will feel weird at first, but remember, you're all there because Ты share the same interests. What could be a better ice breaker? If Ты think you're already way involved and still aren't connecting with people, it might be time to step back and re-evaluate how Ты act around others. Don't be too haughty или condescending. It is far еще important to be nice than be interesting. Instead of heading straight Главная after a game, grab a пицца with the team. The еще time Ты invest in getting to know others, the easier it is for them to see Ты as an A-list friend.
PS: Ты need not dress up in dandy clothes или wear loud make up to attract people. еще than artificial make up, simplicity attracts people. Smile often, make eye contact, don't look too tensed and listen to what others have to say!
Form a Study Group
Does your math teacher give super-hard exams? Is your history teacher always giving pop quizzes? Round up a few others from your class to study together each week. Ask your teacher if Ты could pass around a sign-up sheet или make an announcement about the group after class.
Detach Yourself From Technology. Temporarily!
Put away your cell phone from time to time and take a look around. Who seems funny или interesting? Which people in the room have Ты never talked to? Who pays attention to your ideas? Make a mental note and spend a little time getting to know these people face-to-face. When your group gets together, share notes and chat about class. Find out what your classmates like about the teacher and what they can't stand. Make flash cards together или Тест one another. Bring snacks and share what's going on in your life. You'll have new Друзья before Ты know it.
Slow...
Say you're seriously crushing on a guy, would Ты run up to him and announce Ты two are now a couple and you're now going to spend every single день together? Um, not unless Ты want him to run in the other direction. The same goes for making friends: Ты want to take things slowly at first. Wait until Ты feel comfortable talking to each other during band practice или on the walk Главная from the библиотека before Ты suggest getting together. Skip high-pressure или potentially awkward situations, like your grandpa's 85th birthday bash.
Opt for something casual: "So, have Ты seen that new movie? I thought it'd be fun to get a bunch of people together to go." Will it be totally nerve-wracking to make the first move? Probably but it'll have been еще than worth it once the ice is broken and you're out having fun with your new friends.
And then? Don't sit back, relax and expect lasting friendships to occur. It requires communication from both sides. Therefore, call up people Ты have just met, email old Друзья who have moved away, drop in occasional sms just to say 'hi'.
Old или new... Last but not the least - don't forget old friends. If they have moved away или if Ты have moved away, be in touch with occasional phone calls and emails. Don't leave old Друзья for the sake of new ones.
