First of all, I Любовь you. For this Вопрос and for being you. haha
When someone calls someone "sexy" it doesn't necessarily mean that they have had sex. "Sexy" is just a term used to describe someone in this день and age. The definition? Well, there's many. But I don't think calling someone "sexy" means they had sex.
But I do agree with what Ты сказал(-а) about sex. Young kids should
not be thinking about having sex. Sex is called "making love". I don't think younger kids have experienced enough in the world to actually Любовь someone. Granted, some teenagers can Любовь each other, but sex was originally meant for man and wife. And my beliefs agree with that. Though, society manipulates and that original meaning has been buried by the media.
And, I touched on this a little in my Статья that I wrote yesterday. The "hot/sexy/omgosh abs!" LOL I hate promoting, but if Ты want to read it, it's here (
link)
And... it's annoying, heck yes. Disturbing... I can understand what Ты are saying. Kids verging on becoming a teen или young teenagers shouldn't be so caught up on people's bodies. It's fine that kids find people attractive. I've had crushes too. When I was younger and right now. But just... the thought of pre-teens having that mindset, the image of guys with their shirts off, it's inappropriate. I can understand how that would be disturbing.
However, we can't put the blame on them. Society is also to blame. The image society is promoting as "beautiful" by having a toned body and flawless skin is also weighing on younger kids today. Teenagers, even adults. It doesn't matter what size Ты are, или what color Ты are. The inside is what counts. We're all beautifully and wonderfully made. And Ты should be liked for
who Ты are. Not what Ты look like. Because that fades.