First things first calm down, and don't hate me for just being honest with my opinion.

I'm sorry guys to break it to Ты p, but we are the Фаны service not SE, and here's why SE whether we like или not had a real reaplationship heavy on "real" but they did non the less this relationship went on for 3 YEARS, a relationship no matter how twisted, stuiped, cheesey, unrealistic it looked and felt like, is still was the main lasting "love" story (unlike caroline with Matt & Tyler или Jeremy with Anna p & Bonnie) their relationship stayed strong no matter how much we didn't want it to be.

As...

"Stelena are the сердце and soul of the show."
"Elena will always Любовь Stefan and put him first."
"Elena will always choose Stefan, she сказал(-а) so herself."
"The треугольник isn't real, it's just a gimmick to sell the show."
"The producers have pretty much сказал(-а) that Damon will never be good enough for Elena."
"The writers have made it clear by now that Elena will never Любовь Damon."
"And that is why..."
"And that is why..."
"And that is why..."
"Delena will never be together."
"Delena will never be a reality."
"You're wrong to ship DE."
"Stelena are the one true Любовь story of the show."

However passionate we are...

Maybe it was silly of me, but I expected a lot еще from Stelena in Season 3. I thought their relationship would finally graduate from the syrupy sweet high school romance which lacked dimension into something much darker. I honestly thought that with Stefan's ripper storyline, we would really see Stelena develop and change. However, I was VERY disappointed with the results we got.
Even after the most testing time of their relationship, Stelena has barely evolved at all. They went through a brief dark spell, yes, which culminated in Stefan holding Elena and the ones she loved to ransom in his...