Is it wrong?

When somebody's fancying me или try to ask me on дата I feel an awful discomfort. Not just because I can't see anyone as my boyfriend - It's about dating.
I never had a boyfriend, and I want to TRY kisses, making out, maybe sex - but without being a couple with someone. And without being in love, just simple attraction.
Am I a whore?
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people r just the way they r.
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Dearheart said:
I believe the Вопрос isn't "Am I a whore?" The real Вопрос is, "How much of myself am I willing to give away?"

Don't condemn yourself for wanting to experiment with that kind of stuff. As humans, we all have that itching curiosity; that impulse to explore, to experiment, to try things out...even when we know it may not be smart. And Ты don't have to be in Любовь to date, in my opinion. For me personally, I'd prefer to not дата или Kiss anyone without seriously thinking it over first, but everyone has different convictions and different comfort zones.

However, you need to be mindful of the cost of "trying things out." I've found that the еще Ты give away on a whim или to the wrong person, the еще it hurts later and the еще regret you'll have. When Ты play with matches, chances are you'll get burned...badly burned.

Think of it this way...the еще pieces of your сердце (or body) Ты give away, the less you'll have to give to your future Prince Charming. And the closer Ты attach yourself to someone, emotionally или physically, the еще it will hurt if Ты wind up splitting up. I'm sorry if it sounds like I'm being preachy; Ты don't have to listen to a word I say if Ты don't want to. I just don't want to see any еще girls in my generation needlessly getting hurt.

In a nutshell, my Совет is this: Be aware and proud of who Ты are. Never sell yourself short или give yourself away to someone who doesn't deserve you. By all means, have fun, enjoy life and try new things...but at the same time, be careful. If Ты don't want to get burned, don't "play with the matches" until Ты are old enough and wise enough to know how to handle fire. It's better to be безопасно, сейф than sorry. Don't Kiss so many frogs that Ты miss the prince. ;-)

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that is absolutely perfect advise!
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Thank Ты so much! =)
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jessica101 said:
No Ты are not Ты just want to дата Ты don't have to be in Любовь right away if Ты are dateing someone Поцелуи или even haveing sex it just means that Ты are not ready to be in Любовь so Ты are not a whore.
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MrsPattinsonXO said:
Ummmmmmmmmmm no.
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felicity1111 said:
u should дата cause no guy will do that stuff not with his girlfriend
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