What to do??? Need Advice..Help??

okay umm this is kinda long, but umm yea.. thers this guy who likes me right and im finally told that he likes me, but i didnt feel the same way but Ты know i thought he was ovver me but he dated my best friend and finally i kinda feel the same way,(like Ты know when someone likes Ты and Ты dont like them back but Ты know that person likes Ты and Ты start to grow feeling for that person, thats whats happening here) but hes still going out with my best friend but i tell him i like him and he still feels the same way, so after a while my freind fights with him and me just because i hang out with him sometimes, and she gets jealous because she knew he likes me and started telling me stuff and they both get into fights sometimes over me, so she breaks up with him and he asks me out so i say yes and my friend finds out, and give me these guilty threats so i break up with him the Далее день , and i tell him becasue shes giving suidice thoughts and i dont wana hurt myself again* but know i think i wana get back together with him.... shud i????
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Jillywinkles said:
Do Ты understand it from your friend's point of view though? You'd сказал(-а) Ты didn't want him, and she did, and once she had him Ты take him from her. She feels betrayed by you, and probably insecure that her boyfriend doesn't really like her.

In all honesty Ты shouldn't have told him how Ты felt when he was with her, it was kind of stealing.

All Ты can do at this point is pick one, your friend или your guy. What I'd do is this: go to your friend first, find a good time to talk with her and appologize, say how Ты feel, and say that Ты want to make up with her. It's a mess but if Ты can make up with your friend, it will be better. If Ты guys are on good terms, maybe with time she can forgive Ты enough to let Ты go out with him.
Ты can do that, или Ты can pick the guy instead and go with him. It just depends on how much Ты care for either person. Unless she can forgive you, Ты may not be able to have both.

But basically the situation is that Ты both like the same guy, so it's hard for people not to get hurt.
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scogburn said:
It's IMPORTANT that Ты do not ever have suicidal thoughts over a relationship. If Ты are, find someone Ты can trust to talk to about this.

It's sticky when Ты like the same guy as a friend. You're going to have to decide who means еще to Ты and how long have Ты and this girl been friends? If a long time, Ты might not want to lose her. Sometimes, your girlfriends will stick by Ты when guys won't. If she can forgive Ты and put it behind both of you, then Ты can Переместить вперед in your friendship, but I don't think Ты two need to like the same guy.
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