How should I handle this situation?

About half a год назад there was a guy I always saw in weekends at my regular bar. We have a lot of mutual friends, and we became Друзья too. One night at the bar, things got really flirty between us, and at the end of the night we kissed. The Далее couple of weeks we continued doing that. Everything was pretty casual. After a few weeks I wanted to end this 'fling' with him, because I wasn't in Любовь with him, and toughed I wasn't going to be, so it seemed better to stop. It felt like the right thing to do. A few months later things got flirty again, but then I heard he had a girlfriend now. The last couple of months we have been just friends. Now here's my problem: I now fell in Любовь with him. Every Friday and Saturday night he spends much еще time with me than with his girlfriend, but in the end, he goes Главная with her. It kills me. I would never Kiss a guy who has a girlfriend, and he would never cheat. He doesn't know how I feel, but I don't really want to tell him, because I don't want to lose him as a friend. Does anybody have any idea on how I should handle this situation?
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jameswilson said:
It might be hard, but I think the best thing for Ты is to wait it out. If this girl really seems to be wrong for him или if he seems to pay Ты much еще attention to you, it probably won't last long anyway. If Ты tell him Ты risk a lot of things for a very uncertain conclusion. Not saying something is tough, but if Ты wait for him he may very well Любовь Ты еще one день because of it.
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Thanks a lot! It sounds like the best thing to do, eventhough it's hard. This really helped.
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dsgirl said:
I think it would be good if Ты told him that Ты like him. When I told the guy that I liked, it was weird for about 5 seconds, but then it was back to normal & it didn't change our friendship! Hope this helped.
-Maiza:)
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i agree!
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katielou22 said:
Maybe Ты are now in Любовь with him only because Ты know he has a girlfriend. Sometimes we Любовь what we cannot have. However, if I was in your situation I think I would respect that he was in a happy relationship with another girl and just continue to be his friend. However, if he seemed to be complaining about his girlfriend to you, then I would tell him my feelings to him. It seems like Ты guys had a thing before he had a girlfriend, so he must still have a thing for Ты too. So if he is happy with her, then I would respect it and keep quiet. But if I knew he wasn't happy, then I would say how I felt about him. I hope I helped. Good Luck!
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kiedric223 said:
OKA GURL JUST SAY THAT U HAVE A GURL FRIEND AND U AND HIM JUST WANT TO BE Друзья OKAY THAT IZ NOT SO HARD KAY
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