i have a lil problem

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The dude's nine years older than you. In saying he loves you, he likely meant in a little sister kind of way, или he's a sick pervert who Ты shouldn't touch with a ten foot pole.

Either way, there's no way in Hell Ты should go out with him. If Ты were in your thirties age wouldn't matter, but you're a kid, and he could use Ты any way he wanted and you'd be powerless to him. Ты don't know what you're doing.

And plus, your interests are too different for Ты two to work well together. He has a job and other responsibilities, bills to pay. The biggest thing in your life is probably school. Ты can't really relate to each other there. And in terms of other interests - like Музыка - Ты might not have much in common, either. The years between Ты two are too great, and you're from different generations. He's еще mature than Ты are.

So for God's sake, don't go out with the guy. That's just creepy. O_o
Find someone your own age...

Well if Ты Любовь him, Ты Любовь him. Just make sure hes not a rapist!

If he's on parole and he's 9 years older then you, that's just creepy. Don't.
No matter what your сердце might tell Ты in this situation, listen to your brain. He doesn't seem like that good of a guy to date. But Ты know, there's plenty of other fishes in the sea!

It would b totally insane going out with such a guy.Come on!U r 13 and he's 21!Who knows what'll happen to u(I suppose u can imagine) if u get together.If he has told u that he loves u not as a friend или brother and I don't think it's easy to confuse these things he's a twisted paiderast!I think u had better tell ur parents.Don't do anything stupid!!! Be CAREFULL!!!

Ok so they are not the same age so what!love is love!BUT STILL BE CAREFUL!!!!!

dont. he might just be sayin that, then he would rape you, then Ты would have to care for a baby, and he wouldnt help, Ты would loose ur virginity, and then..... Ты would loose everything, and be poor cuz u Остаться в живых everything when Ты have to care for a kid, and its becuz, Ты decided to дата him then he wants to go further. men are pigs. ALso being preggers at 13 might not be so fun....

Aww ok sweetie I won't bash on Ты but, if he's 9 years older then Ты then, your chances of going out with him is slim at your age. My advice: дата people your own age :P