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Can Ты give me advice?

My 2 "friends" get mad at me for no reason. Like today when they "jokingly" called a guy (kinda sorta my boyfriend... its complicated) an idiot, and they got mad when I got upset. This happens weekly, and sometimes they call me and my Друзья idiots. They also write mean notes when they are mad at me. What should I do? Should I "dump" them или deal with it? (when i try to tell them they deny it)
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8theGreat said:
Do NOT just let this slide. Never let things like that slide.
Ты can either address them with the problem in the calmest and most mature manner possible, или Ты can simply stop being Друзья with them. If Ты ask me, Ты should try to address them to at least do as much about their perspective on it as possible, just to see both sides of the story in a balanced manner before making any definite decisions. Find out why, and find out if the problem can be resolved for future situations. However, I don't know the story in full, so I can't tell Ты what is exactly best to do and the real choice is up to you.
However! Do not lash out in a violent или disrespectful manner as it will only escalate the problem and it may get Ты in trouble as well.

Gah, sorry for the soap box... In a nut shell, I strongly suggest that Ты approach it in the most mature and reasonable manner possible and in the extents that Ты find most necessary. Evaluate and see if the problem can be and is worth fixing, and use your best judgement to make decisions afterward.
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thx and its ok its helpful and detailed
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adultswimperson said:
Leave them and don't make any contact with them whatsoever, there not your friends, there just douchebags that want to push your buttons so they'll think you'll go over the limit.
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thx
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r-pattz said:
Tell them they're shallow fake assholes who deserve the ultimate punishment of spending the rest of their lives listening to nothing but Taylor Swift~

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nice one
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CMxJ2xKA_L0Ve said:
Dump em! Kick em to the curb! Break their itty bitty hearts! Say it however Ты want. Друзья are supposed to make Ты happy not sad!
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thx
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iamagagamonster said:
I say ditch them at a концерт and Переместить to london
if Ты live in london, Your in good hands -thumbs up-
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 I say ditch them at a концерт and Переместить to Лондон if Ты live in london, Your in good hands -thumbs up-
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YAY! I Любовь british people!
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haha
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thx
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bubblegum_kiss said:
well if theyre just "friends" (i assume that the quotation marks mean theyre not very good Друзья to you)then Ты should get rid of them. point being "friends" with people who write Ты mean notes and call Ты an idiot.
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thx
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Jeffersonian said:
"Dump" them, if they can't be nice they don't deserve your friendship.
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