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How do I tell my parents that I self-harm? I'm worried they will get mad at me.. или should I just hide my cuts and scars from them? I'm so alone, I need someone anyone...
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 TG_Mars posted Больше года
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tinkerbell66799 said:
Ты need to get help immediately. Tell your parents или your doctor. Don't wait to tell them. Tell them NOW. Don't worry if they get mad at you. Just talk to them about it and they can help you. And you're not alone. Ты have many people who care about you. And we're all here to help and support you. Talk about anything that's bothering you. And try to relax.
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prettyme16 said:
Ты really need help!!! don't keep it to yourself!!! always remember your not alone, someone is out there who really cares about you, and i would say its your family......
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Bond_Of_Fury said:
Why would your parents be mad at you? Any understanding parent would know Ты have a reason to feel hurt. I'm sure they'll be of help to you; they are your parents, after all. Ты need to let them know.
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posted Больше года 
prophet69 said:
I suggest that Ты only tell one parent if Ты want. They can tell the other parent for you, and it won't be bad.
Try to tell that parent while Ты two are in the car или somewhere where Ты can't make eye contact and Ты aren't on the spot, if Ты want.
Ты can say a little disclaimer first if Ты want.
Ты can also just blurt out, "I self harm."I told my parents by Письмо them a letter. I tried to explain it to them in the letter.It went something like this:
Dear Mom and dad
I having something to tell Ты that I know Ты are not going to understand but I need Ты to try and be there for me. I don't know how to deal with my emotions they have all built up and the only way I feel I can survive anymore is by hurting myself over and over. I really need some type of help. I don't like the fact that I am cut my own body but I don't know whatelse to do . Please be there for me.~
It will be okay, and hopefully Ты will get they help Ты need and deserve.
(:
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Pattie77 said:
If your harming yourself something must be wrong in your life. If your cutting to get attention, Ты need to confront your problem/s. Ты need to tell someone, it can be a friend, a stranger, your parents....but Ты need help. I am not saying your crazy или anything like that. I know a lot of people who cut themselves. They just don't know how to communicate или confront a situation. I actually went to my parents and right in front of them sliced my wrists. I could not handle the abuse at home. (Nothing sexual) However, the physical beatings, the verbal put downs, the silent treatments...it just got to hard to keep hiding. I passed out shortly after I sliced my wrist. I woke up in the hospital with 13 stitches on my artery, and 16 stitches on my wrist. Then I had all the help I could think of... I am not telling Ты at all to cut your wrist, but if Ты are Храбрая сердцем enough, and just want someone to stop and listen then Показать your scars. Don't hide behind them in silence. No one hears silent sighs или sees silent tears. Please get help. This life is so short, don't leave any earlier. Ты are just as valuable as I am, maybe even еще valuable. I wish Ты peace and will pray for Ты to make the right choice. Just go to your parents and lay out all your thoughts.
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