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Um I have a situation

Now I've been liking this boy. and my friend told him in front of EVERYONE! I have these options:

Kill her
Tell her crush she likes him in front of everyone
Ignore her
Ignore the problem
Be friends
Kill her

I meant to put kill her 2 times
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if Ты do kill her i'm not giving Совет on how to get rid of the body
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LOL
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Shadowmarioking said:
putting "kill her" as an option just tells me how immaturely you're looking at the situation and how you're not thinking why she did this. you're thinking in the retrospect "why did my friend have to backstab me like that just because i tell her this doesn't mean she has to blab about it"

lemme put this in a point of view Ты can understand. it may not be a good view, but i feel the need to drill it in your head
you're the one who told her about this crush. Ты disclosed this information to her, and if Ты didn't want her to say anything, why didn't Ты tell that to her?"
now, i'm not saying Ты didn't. i don't know if Ты did. i'm also not saying that this is your fault. it is something to keep in mind though.

telling her crush she likes him will NOT SOLVE ANYTHING, AND WILL PROBABLY COST Ты A FRIEND. REVENGE, или PAYBACK OF ANY SORT WILL NOT HELP YOU. IT IS A CHILDISH RESORT. just, no.

ignoring the problem will not make it go away. it will still be there, and it will lurk in your mind for as long as possible. ignorance may be bliss, but there are some situations where it doesn't apply. she may take your ignorance in a negative connotation.

being Друзья is optional with the boy (if that's what you're referring to), but only if Ты feel comfortable with it.

i suggest Ты tell your friend that Ты didn't want her to tell everyone about it, and that personal information like this is meant to be kept between friends, not become some petty gossip story. as for the boy, Ты could probably Подтвердить the feelings Ты have for him, but in reality what Ты do is up to you.

Ты could easily ignore everything i said, that's fine. in reality, Ты control what happens next. i'm just giving Ты different Просмотры so that Ты can choose your path carefully
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posted Больше года 
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Ты have no idea how much my wrists hurt after typing this just ow.
Shadowmarioking posted Больше года
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How is it my fault for trusting my friend enough to tell her a secret
FanFun1010 posted Больше года
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" i'm also not saying that this is your fault" did Ты not read that или
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kittykazami said:
ignore the problem and pretend it's not awkward. it only makes it worse if Ты make a big deal out of it.
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posted Больше года 
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Its hard. I feel betrayed
FanFun1010 posted Больше года
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well if Ты really wanna do something Ты can completely over react and enjoy the drama
kittykazami posted Больше года
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but that tends to not end so well
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legend_of_roxas said:
Well maybe your friend didn't mean to make Ты feel embarrassed by her telling your crush that Ты like him, she might have wanted to let him know so Ты wouldn't have to tell him. I think Ты should ignore the problem или try to tell her that Ты didn't like what she did....but I'm guessing that Ты two aren't very good Друзья anyway if Ты want to kill her so badly....
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Are Ты saying I should kill her или not?
FanFun1010 posted Больше года
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I just told you, ignore the problem или tell her that Ты don't like what she did and solve the problem
legend_of_roxas posted Больше года
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Don't need to kill her, jeez -.-
legend_of_roxas posted Больше года
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just asking
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XxKeithHarkinxX said:
Why is this such a big deal?

I mean, he now knows Ты like him right?

I'd just forget the problem, because it doesn't really seem like one.

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posted Больше года 
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I wish Ты were a girl
FanFun1010 posted Больше года
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I am a girl e_e
XxKeithHarkinxX posted Больше года
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kitty I wasn't talking to Ты
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AmyRosefan4eva said:
Ты choose what Ты think is right/needs to be done. Just know you'll go to jail if Ты kill her. ^-^
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egyptprincess7 said:
Ты can choose whichever Ты think is right. I personally would just ignore the problem and not make a big deal out of it and I would not kill her. She's your friend,sure she told him Ты liked him in front of everybody but Ты can simply ignore her for a bit until she realizes she shouldn't have done that. Deciding to kill her is taking things way too far and will just make еще problems.
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adultswimperson said:
Why do Ты care so much about the problem if it's already been сказал(-а) in front of people?
Having fear of something Ты think is not okay isn't a bad thing, if Ты want to set things right then do it.
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posted Больше года 
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Because telling someone not to do something and they do it anyway IN FRONT OF PEOPLE!
FanFun1010 posted Больше года
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@FanFun: Ignore the problem and don't let it get Ты down.
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springely said:
All of the above.
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cyrus498 said:
Well did this boy accept you?
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He didn't say anything
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