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Since my eleventh birthday and before then, I've been missing the time that I was nine. I missed 2011 and 2012 like crazy and now I'm depressed because of it. My mom tries to talk to me about it but it never helps. I can't even touch on the situation with anybody else without getting choked up and crying, thus humiliating myself and being unable to talk. It started out with only feeling kind of sad and flashing back occasionally, to now I flash back ALL the time and cry every time I think about it. I was looking at old pictures last night from when I was nine and just burst into tears. My mom found out and tried to talk to me, but that didn't help. As soon as I was alone again I cried myself to sleep. I actually DREAMED about riding on a carousel. I woke up and tears immediately started to run down my face. I'm worried about this, how do I stop breaking down so much over a time I know I won't get back?
 EmilyMJFan910 posted Больше года
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LGYCE said:
Well, the past is the past. We can't go back. But Ты can always change the future. Whatever Ты liked most about that time, try and do it again. Fun has no age limits. If Ты liked riding the carousel so much, save up your money and see if your mom will take Ты again this year. If looking at those фото makes Ты cry, leave them alone. The past is over. But your future can hold anything. Good luck.
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posted Больше года 
EgoMouse said:
Be happy Ты had a good past. Some people won't ever get that. Create new memories, its the only way to get past the past. Ты still have a ton of shit to look вперед to. Your past will help your present and your present will help your future. Make your future look bright, instead of glamorizing your past only.
I guess its easier сказал(-а) than done. I've had pleasant memories of just remembering my parents always telling me they Любовь me right before bed, and I would say I Любовь Ты too back. We don't do it anymore and I miss it..These memories should make Ты happy, instead of sad.
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posted Больше года 
Simmeh said:
Do Ты think you're too old to ride carousels? Is that why you're so upset? If so, Ты shouldn't have to feel that way. Anyone can ride one!
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posted Больше года 
kpop4everlover said:
Aigoo it's ok , I am like that too sometimes , especially when it's after going back to school after the holidays. I live in European country but I am Asian. Really , I feel so different from other people at school , Ты know what in primary school I took YEARS to settle in , it was hard for me but once Ты get older Ты start to think different thoughts. I cry after the holidays I really miss Asia but I can't do much so I just have to continue and Ты can make new memories past is the past , there is not much point in thinking of the past just focus on the present.I miss going on carousel too but I am scared of heights so I only dare to go on that but now I can go and experience еще thrilling things.I look back to фото and think about that time and just think ahh yes , Далее time we can go again или something , something nice and positive :)
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posted Больше года 
jessy_an said:
Why don't Ты try to smile
And you're 11?
Ты have many years to cry so be prepared.
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posted Больше года 
PinkyoshiIS said:
too young for Fanpop sorry kid
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posted Больше года 
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tamore posted Больше года
x-Yumi-x3 said:
When Ты hit 18 growing up will be 10x better than Ты don't think.
Ты can't live in the past.

And I'll ride a fucking carousel when I'm 43, who cares.
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posted Больше года 
tamore said:
you're just being a moody teenager deal w it
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posted Больше года 
Axel1313 said:
Just look at those memories with happiness! Enjoy them instead of letting them make Ты feel sad and look вперед to the new memories to come.
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posted Больше года 
cannibalZoey said:
Dang !!! I can actually understand ur pain I'm like that too but cuz I spent my whole 5 год old life in a hospital fighting for my life and before that everybody liked me , I was pretty , happy , not teased by anyone , people didn't treat me different , my Друзья were nice to me , and I was sane all this made me insane , * start baling out crying * … it made me insane
I'm just sorry I'm not pretty , I'm not sane , I'm not happy, I'm not ever gonna have a bf ever … Reid and Blake r right all I have … is my kindness
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