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How do Ты respond when people tell Ты "It could be worse"?

How do Ты respond when people tell Ты "It could be worse"?

Do Ты find it comforting when they tell Ты that "things could be worse" and that Ты should "suck it up"?
 Simmeh posted Больше года
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wantadog said:
Psh. I'm usually the 'worse' that the people are referring to.

"Don't complain. It could be worse. Wantadog could be online...."
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 Psh. I'm usually the 'worse' that the people are referring to. "Don't complain. It could be worse. Wantadog could be online...."
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Siren-Lamia said:
I don't respond to it.
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Makeupdiva said:
Whenever someone says that to me, I usually say 'Never say it could be worse. Cause it usually ends up way worse than it already is.'
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MasterOfFear said:
I absolutely hate that.
If i'm venting to someone, and they say other people have it worse, it makes me feel like shit. It makes me feel guilty for reacting to bad situations and feeling basic emotions. The people in my family are very entitled to the pain (each thinking they've had the worst life ever) so I get this allot. Problems need to at least be acknowledged as something hurtful.
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Yeah, sometimes people will say that to me when I'm not even whining/complaining and it doesn't help to hear that. It doesn't ease the pain any. It's as if everything I'm going through at the time doesn't matter to them. "Oh, Ты broke a bone? Someone Ты Любовь died? Well, it could worse!".
Simmeh posted Больше года
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At least someone is willing to admit that this annoyance is not normal. :)
MasterOfFear posted Больше года
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I know right! Such a terrible thing to say to someone. Ты know what they always say? "It could be worse - Ты could live in Africa and be poor blahblahblah this and that". I'd honestly rather someone tell me they don't give a damn. That wouldn't sound as stupid.
Simmeh posted Больше года
JDupres2012 said:
...I quote звезда Wars and say "It's worse." Does that make me a nerd? ;)
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 ...I quote звезда Wars and say "It's worse." Does that make me a nerd? ;)
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Zeppie said:
I can't remember anyone ever saying that to me. But when I've heard that saying, I definitely agree with it. No need to act like a little сука when someone says 'it could be worse' because it's true, the situation could be worse, so no use babying the person. Gotta face reality.
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So you're calling me and others a сука because we don't like that saying? Well then... lol. You're an insensitive prick.
Simmeh posted Больше года
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You're right, this is a pointless discussion, but you're not going to change my mind. People don't care and you're a prime example of those who don't. Let it go. We're done here. Bye.
Simmeh posted Больше года
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I'm a person who doesn't care huh? Lovely, however, you're very mistaken. I care immensely for my family, Друзья and worldwide issues, what I do not care for, is your bullshit. Had a blast talking with you.
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EgoMouse said:
...Prove the person right by doing "something worse" to that person and tell him/her that yeah, it could be worse, and I could had done worse to Ты as well.
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Haha! I like your way of thinking. xD
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CindySW4 said:
When someone tells me that "it could always be worse" when I'm venting about real issues and problems that aren't just my fault (kids, husband, taxes, job stress, etc) I can't help but say, "Well it also could be a LOT better too!"


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