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Why is my stepdad so mean to me

My real father left me when I was a baby. Ever since then, my twin sister and I have been raised by our mother and other family members. I've always been a kinda problematic child, getting angry easily because I was bullied, and becoming depressed and scratching my skin until it bled.
When I was 7, my mother introduced him to my sister and me. He was nice, and we went out to eat, and he сказал(-а) how he wanted to our father and stuff, and I was was like, alright sure. I turned 8, he moved in with us. He would tell my sister and me about himself, so we got to know him more. And at school, I was still bullied, and I hurt myself. I moved to a different school, and I think that was around the time he became a total ass.
Later on when I was 9, he and my mother announced I would have a new sibling. We moved out. Things got worse. He would call me and my sister names, call us crazy, say we had problems, take away our things... He wouldn't let me watch TV for a year, so I started to take my mom's phone and computer to get my mind off of it and just became a person who was always in their room. I hurt myself more, and had thoughts of killing myself when I was 10 because all that verbal abuse was getting to me. Now I'm 12, we live away from him. He visits on weekends, still calls me crazy. сказал(-а) he would change, but eventually, he was still hurting my sister and me. Now he says he doesn't want me near my little sister who is almost 3, because I had problems. Last месяц he hit me.
 Leo_Shiro posted Больше года
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astigpinoy said:
Your stepdad probably has problems of his own and he doesn't have an outlet to release his <insert emotions>.
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posted Больше года 
DanDan211985 said:
Wow just wow dose a man half to go low enuf to say things like that to a kid dose it made him feal biger to say mean things to Ты and your sister I am so sorry for you. Dose Ты mom know that he hits Ты and if she dose dose she look past it and ignore you? I ondering stand ware Ты and your sister stand in this battle. Because your a kid your ignored. I do believe that is child abuse!! If Ты ever need anyone to talk to I will be right here always ready to talk to Ты
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posted Больше года 
MarineHolocaust said:
That's horrible, I'm sorry that any of that happened to you.... I don't know why he's like that to you, unfortunately, that's just how some people are. Does your mother know about how he's been treating you? I can only say that Ты didn't deserve it, and that I hope that it gets better for you.
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posted Больше года 
True-Finn-Fan said:
he hit Ты eh? why did Ты not start with that? anyway. how did he hit you? like was it a spanking или what? accident?
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posted Больше года 
Sk8er__grl said:
I don't know much to say to you. It is just plan awful to go through so much at such a young age. I am around your age and I have never went through such a thing. I can tell Ты that not a few months назад that my best friend went through sever depression and suicide in never the answer. Things got better for my friend when she started calling suicide hotlines and she was talked out of it. I suggest Ты do the same. Just stay on Fanpop and Ты will always have Друзья <3
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posted Больше года 
Book-Freak said:
Ты need to Сообщить him to an authority figure. Do Ты have someone at school to talk to?
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posted Больше года 
xXxJDloverxXx said:
Сообщить him to someone (authorities). That's abusive both verbally and physically, no one should have to go through that. Things will be okay!
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posted Больше года 
summer2987 said:
okay, uhm, youre 12.

Ты are 12.

12.

Ты can go up to your mother, just walk right up to her, and say "dad hit me."

now, if its spanking thats not the same. because, thats not illegal to spank a child, unless it leaves a mark.

and make sure youre honest, this is a serious thing, Ты have to be 100 percent sure that him taking away your tv, или yelling at you, isnt what other fathers do as well.

because trust me, i have had a drunk, motherless, abusive father, and yours sounds like paradise to be honest.

but, i respect your problems, Ты still have these situations that Ты can solve by going to the police, child services and just telling them.
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posted Больше года 
324anna said:
That's so awful! Ты should DEFINITELY call the authorities или generally talk to someone (an adult) that Ты really trust, like your teacher for example. We all support you.
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posted Больше года 
ITF said:
What does your sister think? Maybe she can help. If possible, hide a camera somewhere and film him. Then after he leaves, Показать it to your mother или some one else like a teacher. But don't let him see it, because he could Удалить it. If all else fails, give him a piece of your mind. He has no right to treat Ты или your sister like that. But be careful. If Ты can talk to him kindly and still get your point across then that would be best. If not, Ты might have to tell him what a pathetic excuse for a man and father he is. But get it on film.
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What does your sister think? Maybe she can help. If possible, hide a camera somewhere and film him. Then after he leaves, Показать it to your mother или some one else like a teacher. But don't let him see it, because he could Удалить it. If all else fails, give him a piece of your mind. He has no right to treat Ты или your sister like that. But be careful. If Ты can talk to him kindly and still get your point across then that would be best. If not, Ты might have to tell him what a pathetic excuse for a man and father he is. But get it on film.
posted Больше года 
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