Well so far thankfully I haven't had to deal with any bullies. Yes, there were some assholes here and there but nothing that really got to me. Though whenever someone was being rude, I would just ignore them. Then I would probably talk shit about them to my Друзья lol.
Well, what can I say...."manipulation" and "blackmail" was the way to cope with them. When Ты can't win with strength, Ты gotta rely on your head. I have a long history with bullies. Bullies are not always "physical", though. The еще Ты grow up, the еще Ты see manipulative bitches who bully Ты in a subtle way possible. Ты just have to be еще subtle.
And, the ones who try to bully Ты because of their strength are usually dumb. It’s easy to fuck them up.
By trying my best to ignore them, I suppose. One Bully could easily be dealt with but when Ты happen to be the most hated kid in your School, further tension is unavoidable when pretty much everyone is ganging up on you. That was my situation from Elementary till the секунда год in Middle School. Admittedly, I let a lot of things just slide in order to avoid even еще conflict and bottled up my emotions for the time being. Seemed easier to play dumb and pretend everything was going just fine. Withstood a bunch of fake Friendships and Betrayals in the meantime too. Looking back at it, there were better ways of handling a lot of these occasions. I certainly regret not speaking out and standing up for myself. At the same time, I eventually got my lesson about doing exactly that. Never allow toxic people to walk all over you. Do not hesitate to express and reach out to the people close to Ты too. Anyone that can help under circumstances like those. No matter how big или small the matter at hand appears. It doesn't matter how others present it или if they even paint Ты as the Villain. No need to take this lying down. Your Life's your very own and no one should had any influence over it. Do not be afraid and fight for what Ты believe. Regardless of the outcome, Ты have still shown what you're made of. Otherwise, there will always be those willing to take advantage of that. The fear's gotta stop !!!!
