Has your boyfriend been unfaithful to you? Infidelity can leave couples feeling insecure, hurt and can make it difficult to trust each other again. Sometimes, the damage can carry into a new relationship if a break up occurs. Handle a cheating boyfriend by following these steps.:


1-Acknowledge and accept your feelings of anger, sadness and disappointment over the betrayal.
2-Don't blame yourself for his actions. Remember that Ты can't be responsible for anyone's behavior other than your own.
3-Try to set aside your emotions and look at the situation from an outsider's point of view. What Совет would Ты give to your friend?.
4-Evaluate whether his behavior has permanently destroyed your trust in him and in your relationship. Do Ты believe he won't repeat his actions in the future?.
5-Confront your boyfriend and tell him exactly how Ты feel about his actions. Let him know that cheating is not acceptable behavior in your relationship.
6-If Ты feel Ты need to know why he cheated on Ты to obtain closure for yourself, listen to his explanations about his behavior. Remember that listening does not mean Ты condone, agree with или accept his behavior.
7-Don't allow him to manipulate your feelings with sweet words of apology или promises never to cheat on Ты again. Be realistic. Do Ты honestly believe this was a one-time event, или do your instincts tell Ты that he'll probably cheat on Ты again in the future?.
8-Ask yourself if Ты would be better off with him или without him. Can Ты continue to enjoy the relationship, knowing about the betrayal?
9-Find a constructive outlet for your emotions of disappointment and anger.
10-Give yourself time to grieve over the betrayal. Whether Ты stay with him или not, forgive him for his actions so Ты can heal and move on with your life.